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I used to believe that what’s meant to will be, and what’s not will never be..
But I came to realize that everything has a choice.
You can choose to make it happen, or just stop it.
We have the power to make a choice.
If one really loves u, dont worry of losing him.
He will come back to you even when he goes off.
If he doesnt, then be glad. Cos you see another side of him, and u know this earlier before you all
even settle for a marriage path.
You might feel terrible, thinking he had rather let you be on your own thinking and let you down.
But the more you try to find out certain things, the more you cant get an answer. Even if you gotten
the answer,and try to debate with your points, 99% is still gona be the same result,or even worst ending.
Let it be , let it be.
The more you persist for it, it will just turn the other party off. At the end of the day,
one word- disaster. He wont feel much, but end up is only You suffering when he is preparing to be
ahead and going to move on.
Hence,while waiting,All you can do is to have faith, and confident in that person even when he is
gone for sometime.
If he comes back to you, all are worthwhile. It just shows how much he is worth of your love.
He knows who is the one that truly cherish him.
If he doesnt, dont regret of having faith and confident in him.
If he doesnt, then that’s his problem. He doesnt know how to appreciate it.
He just dont dare to give it a shot lke you do.
Gal, u are much more courageous than him in this case.
Cos u had tried all u can to give him a love that win all. If he is smart enough he will know how
precious you are. How much a person like u cherish him. He will be smart enough too, to know such
person are hard to come by.
Dont feel degraded cos you had given certain things, or give up certain things for him before.
Cos all had already happened. By feeling remorseful, i remember a clinical pyschology said before the
more you feel guilty over things u had done, you will fall back for the same things again.
Cos your mind is focusing on what you dont want.
Hence U have control on
how you want to think about.And not fall into depresssion.
Just remember, next round guard urself properly. If you had been through many rounds and doesnt
work, it doesnt mean u are a failure in this. Just that it is a practice, and u need more practice. You will get stronger.
All things take practice.
Be proud of yourself that at least u arent like him giving up.
At least u were true, and sincere. You didnt let him down like he did to u.
Just play ur part, time will give you an answer.
If one is sensible,sensitive enough. They will know who are the one that truly loves, cherish and
appreciate them. If they think themselves of unworthy of being cherish by you,it can be an
excuse or they are just plain silly and self pity of themselves.
They had not understand how much or what kind of love you had given to them that it means to win